Because there's nothing that men can get out of marriage. At best, their lives stay the same or continue on the same path. At worst, she gains weight, loses interest in sex, leaves him, and takes his children and home. Why would any guy want to take such a chance? Imagine a new game in a casino where you pay $100 per turn. If you win, you get your $100 back. If you lose, you may only lose $20-$50, or you could even lose all of it. Do you think anyone would want to play this game? When men can actually get something more out of marriage than what they had before marriage, then they will have a greater interest in it.Why are men afraid to marry? Is it fear of divorceand false charges by a wife, having to leave the house, jail
they are scared especially if you've already been divorced. and your the one that did the divorcing. that tells them you wouldnt be afraid to do it again. and yes women all the time make false allegations to get them out of the house, then what? i know a girl just 2 weeks ago made a false report to get the husband out of the house to the police just as soon as the police left she moved this 20 year old guy in with her 2 hours later. kid you not. needless to say that showed a lot of us friends what she was made up of. we havent spoken to her since then and she wonders why of all things.the huasband did nothing she accused him of. all i can say she lost some good people in her life. but were glad we found out what she was made of. before she did something stupid to us. but guys are afraid of women any way and women like that dont help it any.
I don't know of any men who fear false charges. It never enters their mind, unless the woman puts those thoughts there. Why do you ask, have you done this before. Its possible that a woman who is 53 and has already failed twice at marriage might be a bit handicapped when it comes to finding available men.
you ask this question every week.......you get the same answers............ you sound like a gold digger and will never find anybody worth having.......in other words......give up and have fun spending the money you got from your last try
You have to weigh the down side against the upside. You have outlined some of the down sides in your question. Now, what does marriage have to offer a man in his fifties?
It's too late for kids, It's too late to build a future. He's probably set in his ways as far as life style.
I'm not saying guys won't get married, but the rewards aren't what they would have been in his twenties.
Ask yourself why you want to be married, and then ask yourself would a man want those same things.
Because men get completely raked over the coals in any divorce. Just like you have done in the past, if you are really serious about your question.
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